from a wife's p.o.v

Atas permintaan abg jeg..here goes.(btw this is based on my nearly 1 year experience as Asa's wife)

1. Wife is always right even if she is wrong she is still right and husband CANNOT rub it in her face (asa is getting better at this thank you very much)

2. Always complement your wife's cooking whether she asks for it or not (important if you want the next meal to be good or if you want the next meal at all)

3. Always inform your wife where you are going.(very important if your wife is a worrier like me whose imagination runs wild when her husband is unreachable..for eg. if I cannot reach Asa I imagine he is in an accident or got mugged or locked himself out of the house and his phone is in the house (this actually happened))

4. Always make sure husband is full. If hungry he is easily irritated even if he is a very patient man.An angry man is a hungry man.

5. Tell your husband where you are going and if going out with friends for lunch or dinner make sure husband has food or bring back some for him. heheheh.

6. If husband is playing computer game.. do not disturb OR warn him that you will want his attention on something in the middle of his game so that he is prepared to hit the save/pause button

7. When arguing, both party needs to apologise even if it's the other party's fault.

8. Finally the most important one which is easier said than done is to be very very patient and are willing to give a lot and not just take.

Rasanye itu saje kot. Even if one has all the tips they can ask for, it still does not prepare you for the actual experience. You learn to feel their pain but to also share their joy. What you do, the decisions that you make in your life no longer affects you and only you but your other half as well. To live and share the rest of your life with another person is not easy but it is definitely worth the trouble. InsyaAllah we will have years ahead of us and we will continue to learn to live and be happy with each other.

The items above has been listed with asa's approval.

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